Kink educator, author, podcaster, and content creator.
Hypnosis, rope, and more.

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My bio, experience, links to contact, and wishlist! Plus, various podcasts/interviews I've done.

"Kinky NLP"

How to use and understand neuro-linguistic programming for erotic/intimate hypnosis. Paperback, Kindle, and independent ebook OUT NOW.


Support me and get lots back: I share a lot of educational and erotic material on Patreon, including an archive of session recordings, researched articles, merch rewards, discounts/free stuff, and more!

"Go Down Gamblin'" and other erotica

I've been writing hot and expressively real hypnosis/mind control erotica for a long time now, including my magnum opus manipulation story; check it out!

Hypnotic Games

Very gently dipping my toes into creating some hypnotic games. Free! Links/descriptions inside! First game now includes a transcript commentary to teach hypnotic language/concepts!

"The Brainwashing Book"

A book about operant and classical conditioning from the lens of hypnokink, and how they intersect.

Recorded Classes

My offerings of educational kink presentations available to download and play on your own time.

Two Hyp Chicks Podcast

My erotic hypnosis podcast, each episode a free-form exploration into a topic including live trance demonstration. And drinking! Listen in, or advertise with us!


I got my start in the community through writing, and I pride myself on being able to communicate feelings of trance and control in a way that is both fetishistic and true to reality.My work is hosted on ReadOnlyMind.

I'd encourage you to read my novella, Go Down Gamblin', which is the most brutally honest and hot part of myself that I've ever shared. It's got elves, magic, and an obscene amount of manipulation, covert hypnosis, and emotional sadomasochism. It will be an illustrated book sometime in the future, but you can read the original text now (free online) at ReadOnlyMind.

Hypnotic Games

Curious about what's involved in making a visual novel and inspired by other creators, I've made a couple of little hypnotic demos.These are games that will hypnotize you, and you should treat them as hypnosis files/sessions. Content warnings and other considerations are on the game pages on! They both focus heavily on the inherent eroticism of hypnosis. They're free/donation based :)test hypnosis game1 comes with a full transcript document of the game including detailed commentary for the reader/player to learn the hypnotic techniques within! It's a great free learning tool!Enjoy!

About Me

Hi, I'm sleepingirl! I'm an educator, author, podcaster, and content creator in the BDSM and hypnokink communities. I've been active in the scene since 2012, but I've fetishized hypnosis for as long as I can remember. I'm queer and nonbinary, but often femme-presenting; my pronouns are they/she. I'm a switch, and 30 years old.I'm most active on Twitter @h_sleepingirl, and feel free to email me with inquiries about me teaching or any questions or comments at [email protected]. Please consider supporting the work I do on Patreon! The best way to keep up with my content is by joining my mailing list. If you'd like to do something nice for me, I would be very happy to get anything off of my wishlist!

Podcast Appearances


- I've been doing hypnosis with IRL partners since 2009. I am voraciously interested in hypnosis theory and technique, and I largely consider myself to be a conversational hypnotist, influenced heavily by Erickson and NLP.- I have been doing rope and other BDSM activities since I entered the kink scene. I particularly enjoy floorwork rope, as well as singletails and needles.- I am polyamorous and have been with two of my partners in a triad since 2013 and my most recent partner since 2018. All of my relationships are structured around some form of 24/7 D/s.- I teach quite a bit at events across the United States as well as online, and occasional private lessons. I also write extensively about all this stuff, both erotic and educational content. Plus, I like to take hot pictures of my real-life play to share :)

The Brainwashing Book: Hypnotic, Erotic Behaviorism and Beyond

“Brainwashing” is a concept that titillates and mystifies—it implies an intense kind of control over another person and surrender of will. Within the context of erotic hypnosis, it might be considered a sort of holy grail to some, but what does it mean to achieve this in an ethical, effective, and mutually enjoyable way?In “The Brainwashing Book,” we’ll explore a model that teaches and takes advantage of well-researched psychological principles and intermediate-to-advanced hypnosis skills in order to pursue this fun, hot form of play—and find how it can improve your trancing as a whole.

- Paperback/Kindle copy
- Ebook
- Bundle with "Kinky NLP"
- Bundle with "Kinky NLP" and Pacing/Leading video class

Patreon subscribers can get a discount off of the ebook/bundles, or get a copy for free!

Recorded Classes

With the advent of so many online classes during COVID, my partner cc and I decided that we could further improve accessibility by recording some of our existing presentation offerings and distributing them online for folks to watch on their own time. Our classes are highly polished (we work through them extensively) and often are a blend of lecture and demonstration.The one we have currently available is "Pacing, Leading, and Ambiguity"; a class that explores foundational concepts and techniques for effective, organic hypnosis that comes from (and expands on) concepts from NLP.

Patreon subscribers can get a discount off of the class/bundles, or get it for free!


Patreon is the best way to support me and get into a lot of the other stuff that I create in terms of erotic and educational content.- I write around 6,000 heavily-researched words per month on topics that subscribers can choose, ranging from NLP, to brainwashing, to subject skills, to using magical frameworks for hypnosis- I record these articles so you can listen instead of sitting to read them- Discounts and free content are given to Patrons on things like my books and classes, plus limited edition designed-by-me merch rewards are available!- There is an archive available of 600+ minutes of candid erotic hypnosis sessions between myself and my partnerNot sure what kind of writing I do? Take a look at some of the publicly available articles:- "On Double Binds", an in-depth exploration on this oft-misunderstood language pattern
- "On Becoming a Skilled Subject", a discussion of what "skill" means in hypnosis
- "Personal Reflection on Hypnosis and Magic", a personal essay about the connections between "woo" and trance

Kinky NLP: Neuro-Linguistic Programming for Erotic Hypnosis

Within the world of erotic hypnosis, neuro-linguistic programming has a reputation for being pseudoscientific, hard to understand, and ethically questionable. But it also is deeply intertwined with our culture, history, and current practice as hypnotists. Where did it come from? Are there any salvageable techniques? How can it be useful for hypnokink specifically? And most importantly: What, actually, is it?!“Kinky NLP” moves to answer these questions (and more), suitable for hypnokink practitioners across experience levels. We will explore a framework for NLP that is explicitly focused on effective, realistic hypnosis between intimate partners. Jump in, learn to level-up your trancing, and enjoy!

- Paperback/Kindle
- Ebook
- Bundle with “The Brainwashing Book”
- Bundle with "The Brainwashing Book" and Pacing/Leading video class

Patreon subscribers can get a discount off of the ebook/bundles, or get a copy for free!

Two Hyp Chicks Podcast

Two Hyp Chicks Podcast | Listen Notes

My partner cc and I have been hosting an erotic hypnosis podcast since 2016. We really wanted to make something that showed how real partners (and queer femme folk) talk about and practice hypnokink. Listennotes lists us as in the top 5% of podcasts worldwide.We hang out, have a couple drinks, and pick a topic that connects to erotic hypnosis to talk shop on for a while. Expect a healthy dose of flirting, silliness, as well as education. Plus, every episode ends with us doing a trance as a demonstration of the topic.

Find us wherever you get your podcasts, listen here, or check out our landing page and online listening site at Simplecast.Email us at [email protected] for opportunities to advertise with us, collaborate, and cross-promote! We get about 1000-2000 unique listens per episode 30 days after release. We love to work with content creators/SWs/small business owners!